These are the spankings I deliver to my husband. They are quite painful for him but it is what he needs. He knows this and accepts them well. I spank him for a number of reasons. Mainly because I want to, but also to punish him or make sure he maintains good behavior. The maintenance spankings aren't as severe but I do have to make sure there is sufficient pain for him to continue to maintain his behavior. Other times it is a stress reliever for him and also sometimes for me. I have a number of implements including straps, belts a wood paddle and a delrin cane. The cane is an real attention getter. Hope you enjoy.